In Oklahoma, concerns about youth football safety surged following a recent practice in the heat conditions that left a player in visible distress.
As per LillyAnna Piccolo’s Facebook post that sparked discussion across the community, the child, who was identified as Dex, struggled through a full-pad, conditioning-heavy practice in temperatures reaching a heat index of 109 degrees.
Piccolo detailed that the incident occurred around 6:15 p.m., when the sun was still high.
Despite the National Federation of State High School Associations (NFHS) and local guidelines emphasizing safety measures during extreme heat, players were required to wear full gear, including helmets.
As per the post, Dex started to show symptoms of heat distress, dizziness, headache, disorientation, and even emotional breakdowns described as “hiccup crying.”
At the end of practice, he was barely able to walk straight on his own and fell asleep almost immediately after getting into the car.
After taking a quick shower at home, Dex passed out again, a sign that the conditions severely overtaxed his body.

Through the post, Piccolo reinforced a message that she believed coaches needed to hear loud and clear. She said,
“Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should.”
LillyAnna Piccolo
She also pointed out that state and youth football guidelines often set thresholds, including allowing gear and conditioning up to a heat index of 115 degrees. She added,
What you SHOULD be doing is keeping our boys SAFE.
LillyAnna Piccolo
Piccolo also reported that no coach checked in with her when she arrived to pick up Dex. Instead, a fellow parent was the one who noticed Dex’s condition and called her.
She also complained about the lack of cooling stations and shaded areas at the practice. Piccolo added,
I feel like the crazy “Karen” parent for being upset, and Dex gets to feel like he did something wrong by not “toughing it out.” There were no “cooling stations”, no shade aside from said parent-friend’s umbrella.
LillyAnna Piccolo
Moreover, social media users took to the comment section and raised their concerns.
Kelsey Becht, a mother whose son played in the United Youth Football Association for years, also shared that complaints about unsafe heat practices have been ongoing.
She wrote,
We’ve been complaining about this since Dylan started with UYFA in 1st grade. 4 years in a row of this. They don’t care. It’s all about winning. It’s ridiculous. Two years ago when we had record breaking heat, boys on our team were throwing up in the middle of practice and passing out. Young boys. So the next year, UYFA enacted “rules” such as no pads and helmets at a certain heat index, 10 minute water breaks a certain number of times per practice, etc and after like 2 weeks they forgot all about it and went back to breaking the rules. I was furious every. single. year. I’m glad you’re speaking up about it. Someone needs to. Ridiculous.
Kelsey Becht
Cheryll Hill, a graduate of Broken Arrow High School, commented,
You are right and I stayed at all of Dustin and Colton’s practices for this very reason. Don’t ever feel bad about protecting your child. If you need me to go to his practices I will. Let me know
Cheryll HIll
Piccolo also noted that officials are scheduled to vote on a new heat-safety proposal that could lower the temperature thresholds for gear and conditioning.
In the post, she attached the proposal being voted in and said 90 to 92 degrees would mean no protective gear and no conditioning.